What does this say about the supposed adopters of Miss Veronica?

Please read this: http://www1.odcr.com/detail?court=011-&casekey=011-WH++1300006


So not only do the C's not really give a shite about this child's rights, they want to willfully deprive her of her voice! Not only that, they want to deprive her of a true Guardian Ad Litem, one not in their pockets. What is wrong with these people? Why would they do this? What possible reason could they have for making these motions? Oh, wait that's right, it would help them somehow to actually "save Veronica"

Why do they people not understand this child is not in need of saving from her natural family? How did adoption become this horrible thing in our country?

 Oh wait, I know the answer to that one too. Georgia Tann, the Orphan Trains-closed records. All of it, if you really want to start doing research on adoption and how it has come to be the huge industry it is, you can begin by going here:

http://babyscoopera.com/

you can also read here: * this site can be hard to read


http://exiledmothers.com/

to find out why the term "Birthmother and Birthfather" are offensive please be sure to read this article:

http://exiledmothers.com/adoption_facts/Why_Birthmother_Means_Breeder.html



You can also find many first mother blogs via a google search, just like this one:

https://www.google.com/#fp=6da2069b7a32db09&q=First+mother+blogs


Do I need to continue to provide links? DO I actually have to spell it out for any of you? Our children do not need to be "Saved" from us, or from their culture. Our children deserve to be raised by their families. I can not state it any clearer. Children should always be raised by family, parents first, other relatives second, guardianship before, genetic stranger adoption.

 It is infinitely preferable for children to be raised by their families.If you have read any of the studies about children and how they learn you know that genetic mirroring is important for proper brain development. We also now know that nature has a much greater influence than previously thought. I found this out for myself when my eldest child and I were reunited.

When I finally found myself in a room again with my daughter, one of the first things I noticed was she moved like I do. She used her hands the same way I did when I talked, she walked like I did. Her laugh and her little sister's laugh were almost identical. It was actually a bit scary to me to see all those things. But, very comforting at the same time. It was heartbreaking, intense, and horrifying to see what I had lost. I knew intellectually all that I had lost. I knew my own grief and pain, but looking at my child's face, seeing this lovely green eyed adult standing before me was the hardest thing. I remembered the baby you see, and that baby was long gone. I knew from raising my three other children all the things I would never ever be able to get back. All those firsts I missed, all those times I should have been there for her. I can never get past that, I can never have it back. It is never going to go away this grief, I have learned to handle it, most days it's just something in my life. It's like the white noise when  you are reading, it's in the background, a dull ache, like the ache you get in your neck after a long day of work. Some days, it comes roaring back full force, and like a gale wind, rushes through me, leaving me weak, trembling, breathless and crying.

 I don't want Veronica, and her family to have to go through any this though, it is not necessary, not wanted, god knows it isn't right. If the people trying to take her away from father, actually loved this child, they would have stopped this, and learned that sometimes the best for all involved is to let go. Why would any person, let alone someone who calls themselves a parent(s) want anyone to go through this. Have they no mercy? Have they no decency? My brain tells me the answer to those questions is no. That these people simply can't let it go. Like a child who has to share a toy, has a tantrum when forced to share said toy, they are laying down on the floor and kicking their feet, and screaming. It's mine!!!! I want it!!!!! (of course the word is She not it) MINE MINE MINE MINE!!!!!!  What they fail to see is this, Veronica is a person, a child with rights, and a voice, and she deserves a voice. Veronica is a human being, with thoughts, feelings and wants and needs. We need to honor that-

#standingourgroundforveronicabrown

#keepveronicahome